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Behavioral Modification

I have spent the last week or so being around young school age children in our local school district.

Ages ranging from Prep-K up to early high school.

I have to admit it's fascinating to watch how the system works in order to make these young people comply with acceptable behavior.

For example ...  be quiet when they want to talk, sit still when they want to dance, study when they want to play, stand in line when they wish to wander and the biggie to say that which is acceptable to say as opposed to speaking honestly about what's in their hearts and minds.

As somewhat of an outsider, I watched the enforcers take action against those who failed to comply. Amazingly enough, the students did exactly what they were told to do.

BUT ......

As soon as the enforcer was gone, they became who they are ... KIDS!!!

You got to love them!!!




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