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A lot is going on in our lives.

I mean, like bills to pay and all kinds of activities capture our attention ... day after day. Our careers are important. Right??? We actually spend more time thinking, worrying and stressed out about our jobs than we do anything else. Why??? ... because the career and job supports all the bills and of course all the cool things we do. On any given day, more time is spent at and on work than anywhere else,

Nevertheless and in spite of everything, NOTHING is more important than the children who are a part of our lives each day.

Our children and grandchildren depend upon us for things that are important. Sometimes, it's financial. Many times it is for love, companionship and validation of their existence. This validation confirms they are important and you actually want them in your life. An ongoing exchange of love and time spent together is huge.

The unfortunate thing is that if we ignore their needs, then the detrimental impact upon their lives is permanent. Once time passes there is nothing that can be done to recapture the lost time we could have used more wisely to their benefit.

Therefore, this little note today serves to remind you (and me) to NOT miss the opportunity to love and spend quality time with your little person.

That which you do with and for them reverberates through time and for the rest of their lives.


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